Do I need to write here on what has happened to me & my family last week? Well, last week was a very stress and pressure week for me as an "Ibu Tinggal"...baca betul2 tu bukan "Tunggal" tau..hehehe..
It started when Adik had her viral fever (according to Dr.Azman of Klinik KITA ) on Tuesday nite. The following day, Aniq complained of having headache, but I just ignored him thinking that he didnt want to attend school that day.
At 1.15pm I saw a missed call from Abang. I returned his called, he was crying when informed me that he was not well. Told him to be absent from KAFA & rest at home. When I reached home around 6.00 pm, was informed by Mak that Abang slept from a moment I told him to sleep and he didnt wake-up. I went to him and felt his forehead and felt the heat.Quickly I woke him up and sent him to Klinik KITA. He also infected with viral fever and got 2-day MC.
Adik pulak asyek tercirit all nite, 3 kali tukar bedsheet.Dah masuk 3rd day dia tercirit.So I brought her to see Dr Mahani at KPJ on Thursday afternoon. Dr. suruh admit coz adik was too weak and dehydrated.
Dengar je perkataan "admit" I dah rasa so sad & worry coz, abang pun need my attention at home and I have to be in the hospital at the same time.
Nak tak nak, I bawak adik balik & pack barang2 utk bawak ke KPJ. Susah gak lone ranger ni, coz mana nak bawak adik lagi, mana nak bawak barang lagi, finally I drove to KPJ with adik in her baby seat beside me. Sampai KPJ I mintak tolong the security guard to bring my barang2 to the ward.Settle 1 issue.
Alamak, tak dapat single room....kena kongsi pulak.Nevermindla, asalkan adik ok.Sib baik dapat katil tepi tingkap,. so tak lah rasa sesak sgt. Adik ni pulak terjerit2 kena cucuk jarum ngan Dr.
So, 1st nite at KPJ.Nurse datang bawak ubat & mintak I masukkan 3 types of ubat dalam susu adik.I pun ikut cakap dia..ha kau!!adik tak nak minum langsung!!The whole nite dia tak nak minum susu. Lagipulak, susu tu I baru beli atas nasihat Dr.-Isomil Free Lactose- Soy base.
Pening gak kepala fikir camner nak kasi susu kat adik, finally, around 6.45 am on Friday, I mintak balik kejap ke umah amik susu lain. Angkut adik and solat subuh kat umah...Before 8.30 am I dah ada kat KPJ semula.Sib baik Dr. tak buat chek-up lagi..
Sekali lagi pening coz susu yg I amik kat umah pun dah nak habis, klu nak beli kat Giant kena angkut adik lagi...suddendly dapt sms from Ina kata nak mai....I pun apa lagi dengan muka tak malu mintak dia belikan susu free lactose...Alhamdulillah Ina datang bawak susu tu (dah la tu dia kata dia present susu tu kat adik.- semoga Ina cepat kaya!!)..Syok gak ada org visit ..bukan anak terhibur..mak terhibur..thanks to Ina, Aty, Dila, Nani & Shai dtg jenguk ya...(Depa tak lunch lagi tapi dah mai datang dulu...).
Finally, adik discharged on Sat. Lepas je dr kata boleh discharge, I angkut adik balik umah dulu, then after an hour baru mai KPJ semula , ambik barang2 bawak balik...
Lega malam tu dapat luruskan badan ...tapi tak lena sgt tido coz abang pulak meragam, tak nak makan minum, & mengerang perut pedih...
So, on Sunday tu, bawak abang ke Klinik lagi, dapat ubat angin & cirit & dapat MC for Monday.
Bermulalah drama between me & abang. Dia tak nak makan ubat.. setelah pujuk secara lembut tak jalan, I pun naik angin la..pok..pek...pok..pek..dengan linangan air mata abang makan ubat.
Pas tu I solat Maghrib and lepas solat I dok muhasabah diri, why must I scolded abang masa demam2 ni..Then, I turun cari abang & peluk dia and nangis dua2 beranak ni...told him i love him so much and couldnt stand to see him in pain and that's why I scolded him for refusing to have his medicine.Lepas drama tu, abang dah boleh senyum2 and main2 sket ngan adik dia.
Monday tu I pi gak office tinggal lah anak2 ku di rumah ngan bibik yg juga demam tu....and finally alhamdulillah anak2 ku telah sihat walaupun daku disaat blog ni di tulis, tak berapa sihat-melayang2 diangkasa coz makan ubat !!!
Itulah routine Ibu Tinggal ...pada suamiku...tiada simpati yang kuminta tapi your understanding and thought are the most valuable things that I really appreciate it at this time..Arggg..tak sabar tunggu darling ku balik cuti...biar dia pulak ambik alih tugas2 ku ini...huhuhu..
"BERSABAR DAN REDHA DENGAN DUGAAN YANG MENIMPA AGAR HATI KITA TENANG MENGHADAPI HARI-HARI MENDATANG..."
